How To Choose The Right Gift
So, the Holiday Season is upon us. We start to think about all the people we need to get gifts for, kids, grand kids, aunts, uncles, parents, the list seems endless.
How do we determine what to get those people, especially when we may not see them too often and don’t really know their likes or dislikes? For some of those people on your list you probably know enough about them that you have a pretty good idea of what they want or need. For the others you could guess, but the best way is to ask. Ask their parents or spouses or friends.
The most important thing is to put some thought into what you buy. To just go out and grab something off the shelf because you need to get them something is a waist of your money and they won’t appreciate it. I know I know, it’s the thought that counts, right? Wrong! The only thought that counts is if they think you actually cared about what you were getting them.
Here’s my thought. Do a little home work and find out what your recipient wants or could use. Giving something that they want but would never buy for themselves or something that they can use as a family is always a good route to take. Take the time to know their tastes, decoration style and hobbies.
Let me tell you a story. One year my wife and I were given an Asian style vase. It was colorful and beautiful but it did not go with ANYTHING we had in our home. I was ready to pack it in the back of a closet but my wife, bless her heart, chose to put it on a shelf next to some other nick nacks. As you have probably guessed it came from someone on her side of the family. I would have appreciated a simple card more than the vase because the card would have taken some though and consideration while the vase appeared to be something that was just grabbed at the last minute.
It is the thought that counts, the recipients thoughts. Do they think you really cared or think you were just grabbing any old thing to give to them so you didn’t show up empty handed?
This year take time to put thought and consideration in the gifts you give, be it for family, friend or business. Your thoughtfulness will be appreciated.
Have a Happy Holiday.
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